Annoying Much?

I'm not usually the possessive sort. But I HATE it when certain relatives use my personal stuff - cosmetics, perfume, jewellery, shoes even clothes despite them having all their stuff with them. Kuch kaho to agay se mun ban jata hai. And now she's gone and lost my favorite earrings and finished my favorite perfume. An older, married woman who happens to be a close relative. Dammit, I don't even have the money to buy more stuff! Blah. I know. I'm horrible.